Repost: The Honeymoon Life

I didn’t write the following, but it was very meaningful. It’s something I’ve feared, not the luxury trip-we did that, but living without him. I’m sure I could handle it, but I know I don’t want to have to live that life. I want to grow old with him, learning more about him each day. Sometimes I still look at him and think I legitimately have no idea who I am married to. Not negatively, but kind of in awe of how you can live with someone for over 2.5 years and have no clue who they are sometimes. But every once in awhile I have no clue who I am either.

I hope this devotional impacts you as much as it did me.

The Honeymoon Life
By Sharon Glasgow (Proverbs 31 Ministries Devotional Email)

“Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.” Proverbs 31:25 (KJV)

My heart sank as she told me the tragic end to her love story. When she and her husband married, they couldn’t afford a nice honeymoon. Kids came and the money to do something special together just never seemed to be there. Her husband worked all the time, so for years she dreamed and planned for the trip she longed for with him—the perfect honeymoon.

When their last child was leaving for college, they finally set up their honeymoon trip. But something awful happened right before they were ready to leave. Her husband was tragically killed in a car accident. Her dreams were shattered.

With a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes, I stood by her feeling helpless to offer the right words. All I could say was, “I’m so sorry.”

Her story affected me deeply. Although my husband was still alive, I didn’t have the honeymoon of my dreams either. On our wedding night we stayed at a state park. For years I too dreamed of the day I would have a “real” honeymoon. After hearing her story, I changed my thinking and made a new plan.

I didn’t want to pin my hopes on a fancy trip. On that day I decided to live every day as if it were my honeymoon.

Rather than a honeymoon trip, I wanted a honeymoon life.

Hearing her story made me worry. What if my husband died too? What if I didn’t have the chance to show him how important he was to me every day?

I went before the Lord and committed, “My husband is Yours. I don’t know how long my days will be with him. But, I trust You to teach me how to spend our time wisely. I trust You that when our days are done, I will have no regrets. Teach me now how to be a lover of You first. And by loving You, I will know how to love my husband fully every day, especially when the days are hard, the storms rage, and the sun sets at the close of our life.”

On that day the Lord gave me a peace that flooded my entire being. A scripture from the Bible came to my mind after I prayed. It was Proverbs 31:25, “Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.”

I knew God was telling me to not be afraid of what tomorrow might bring. He would give me the strength to live the honeymoon life successfully. That truth helped me rejoice at my future knowing that I would live married life to the fullest.

Just a few weeks later my husband and I celebrated our anniversary. We couldn’t afford a special trip, but that didn’t discourage me. This was the start of a new way of looking at my marriage … of celebrating a honeymoon life every day. I packed a simple picnic of his favorite foods and the two of us enjoyed it, and each other, in the middle of our field.

No trip around the world, no lavish hotel, nor any gourmet dish could have competed with that field, the picnic dinner, and the way God changed my perspective.

From that day on, I chose the honeymoon life. Not just dreaming of it but living it every day. I’ve set my heart to cherish the simple things, like making my husband’s favorite foods and eating together by candlelight, going to bed at the same time, reading and praying together. Even mundane trips to the store together.

We’ve been living the honeymoon life for 16 years now and have been married for 31. With God’s help, I’ve been able to see every day as an opportunity to love my husband in a special way. We may never go on that honeymoon trip, but I’ll take a picnic in a field with the one I love any day.

Dear Lord, give me the ability to live the honeymoon life with my husband. Help me to stop focusing on the what if’s of the future and to start focusing on loving to the fullest today. Help me not to have any regrets of how I’ve lived out my married life. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

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